Since God chose you to be the holy people he loves, you must clothe yourselves with tenderhearted mercy, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience.(Col 3:12 nlt) Notice the word gentleness. What does it mean to be a person of gentleness?
Gentleness is a quality of character. It is a behavior that is deliberate, a behavior we choose to demonstrate that isn’t always natural to us. We show gentleness when we act or respond in a kind and quiet way. With gentleness, there is calm in the storms of our
relationships.
Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.
Eph 4:2 niv
Some may think that gentleness is soft and weak but in truth to be gentle takes strength and thought. Not only our actions are to be gentle but also our speech is to be gentle. Sometimes we must say something to another that is hard or unpleasant; at those times we may need strong words. When strong words are needed it is best to have a soft voice, guarding our tongues and expressions so our words are expressed in a way that can be accepted without anger or hurt feelings.
A gentle answer deflects anger, but harsh words make tempers flare.
Prov 15:1 nlt
Some people are gentle by nature and find it easy to show and express gentleness. They at heart are kind and merciful. I have talked to Jesus about this on many occasions when I have not felt merciful or kind, patient or humble, times when I have not shown gentleness where it was needed. He knows these traits are not necessarily inherent in us and it is essential that we develop them. He will help us;
Take my yoke upon you.
Let me teach you, because I am humble and gentle at heart,
and you will find rest for your souls.
Matt 11:29
To help us He tells us to take His yoke and asks us to let Him teach us. He doesn’t force these lessons but He wants to teach them. When we look to Him as our Teacher we learn to be like Him, humble and gentle at heart. Is that not what we want, too?
Blessings this day of grace,
I love your meditations, Patricia, and your humility in admitting your own imperfections and the things you are working on and praying about.
Thank you, Josie. My word this year is yield and I am trying to do just that. It is not easy for this proud and stubborn woman! I think sharing some of what I struggle with is a beginning and I hope it helps someone who needs to hear.
Amen. 😃
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There is such a need for more gentleness in this world.There is too much noise, yelling, whining and complaining. Yes, more gentleness. Amen.
I wonder where the gentleness went and why? It just seems everyone is so angry. Sad, isn’t it?
It is, Patricia. I have had people get angry with me when I try to focus on positives. It seems people want to be miserable. It is sad. Hugs!
My mother would call me Pollyanna if I tried to see the positives. Sadly she wasn’t a very happy woman.
I am not a Pollyanna; I just don’t see value in wallowing or encouraging others to wallow. It is a downward spiral. It is better to focus on blessings. Good will come from that.
I am not a Pollyanna either and agree with your thoughts.
You are a positive influence and inspiration. A blessing on both counts. Hugs.